Delving
into my subconscious for what naturism means to me brings me face to face with
what it means to others. Freedom to be oneself? Exchange of one uniform for
another? A commitment to a sort of pagan God? A passport to hedonism? A license
to be sexy? A way of coming to terms with the forces of nature? A religion? An
ism?
There
are so many sorts of naturism as there are naturists. Everybody has a different
view of the measuring of the apparently insignificant act of taking one's
trousers off.
For topless
isn't nude. But wearing tee-shirts with no knickers definitely is! To be a
naturist you reveal your all in a social setting. No matter how remote or
ethereal your thoughts, you cannot “join the club” unless you take your clothes
off. And that means your trousers.
This
is such a small act, why does it mean so much? Some naturists feel that “who is
not for us is against us” and cannot understand why some people choose to keep
their trousers on. And yet, if it is so natural, why do we feel the urge to “convert”
others and persuade them to it?
There
is a very real danger of naturism becoming an “ism”... of having rules... once
people argue about definitions –and they do! – we are in real danger of
exchanging one system of ethics for another.
We
start by enjoying the freedom of naturism –we and by telling others that
naturism SHOULD be this, that or the other.
That
is why the beaches are so important. Society is not so structured there. I
don't feel myself there are no rules, but the rules are not written down, there
is no entry fee, no application for membership. It's freedom.
Of
course it's risky. We feel friendly towards the other naturist, and generally
he feels friendly back. But his ideas about naturism may be completely
different from ours. He may think it O.K. to do something we regard as
exhibitionism. He may find us upright. Or the reverse may be issue.
Or
anything in the world might be true.
It
makes life more interesting. Naturism is a perpetual learning experience. I
have learnt more about human nature among naturists, than ever before. Some of
it is to my taste, some isn't. But it's all illuminating.
And
just as my body is open to the sun and wind, to the sensations of cold, heat
and the touch of others, I hope my mind will always be open enough to accept
that the opinion of the next naturist is at least as valid as mine.
I
hope, in the philosophical sense, naturism will teach me to keep my eyes and
ears open and my mouth shut! Life is so short, oh so short. I want to be
receptive, to reach out to others, and although my sun runs so rapidly across
the sky, I take off my clothes and ask it just one more thing –to born a little
more brightly.
Susan
Mayfield
(The author is originator and
publisher of “Naturist World” magazine, sold in English by subscription only.)
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